It was one experience that lasted a year and a half actually. It was someone I actually went to school with but didn't really talk to.
The first time was very interesting. We were making out and both really turned on. At the moment I didn't even have to think about a guy. but when she said "Make love to me" I lost my erection. I was 19 at the time. A little coaxing and things started to work again. Luckily for me, she was experienced. Actually, I found out later that she had sex with my older brother. Ewww. It was a pretty amazing experience at the time. At 17 I was having oral sex with guys, but thought this was the thing I was supposed to do, so it was a good experience. It felt as good as my friends claimed it would. Soon thereafter however, it did take thinking of guys to continue to have sex with her. Also, had I known then what I know now, I never would have done it!
I didn't know that my parents already knew I was gay. My mom told me at age 22 that she had known since I was about 16. The reason I was with the woman was to keep from my family what they already knew.
Funny you ask this. I was just talking to my buddy Sam about this yesterday at lunch. Everyone knows I love being the center of attention. This I believe is because growing up I was soooo shunned by the people in my community. I seem to show that everytime I am out. I started SF Moviebears. I teach country line dancing. I am not afraid to take charge.
I would like to end up some kind of community planner of some sort. While staying with the career I have as a support person. I volunteer so much of my time to the community through various organizations.
I would love to be as visible as Harry Lit. Planning things like he does and giving it all back to the community.
So in short. Make money in my regular career to be comfortable, which I am right now. And be a planner for the community.
Q: Are you a racist??? JUST KIDDING! Hey, I guess one of the guys I was making out with last weekend gave me a cold or flu. I started feeling slightly ill last night and awoke today to feel quite ill, although not dreadfully sick... yet. Anyway, not sure where this will be going, so I may not make it to SF at all this weekend. =o(
In truth, the entire world is so divided by race, religion, social class, boob size, etc. US is jsut one of the most conscious and morally burdened country over it.
I like what Margaret Thatcher said during her iron fist reign, that a problem doesn't exist if nobody talks about it. What she meant was if people don't focus on it, it won't be such a big deal. We can all hate each other with so many other more valid and controllable variables, race is so built-in and boring by comparison!
I really care about people in general. There are so many amazingly nice people in our community. I found that in the 2+ years I lived in SF that I have met more people then the 5 years I lived in Texas. Not sure why that is.
I get a sense of "I did a good thing" when I help at charity events. I'm not rich and I cannot donate lots of money to organizations, so I donate my time! Everyone knows that time is valuable.
My need to be visible? Well, I can fill that by just being me out anywhere!
Mark, you really know how to put someone on the spot don't you!!
I masturbate daily. And many many men come to mind. I usually don't focus on just one person. So I can't give you an answer except, that your image has popped in my head from time to time last week.
Hmm. So those of us who have been paying attention know that you prefer otters. And those of us who have been reading these comments know you have slept with a woman, which is a real "departure from type." So my question for you is: Have you "strayed from type" by messing around with bearish NON-otters? :-)
I firmly believe that rules were meant to be broken. While the main thing that catches my eye is a trim furry guy, that does not mean that a bigger guy cannot get my attention. There is a certain LJ user who will remain namless who I would not mind a roll around in the hay with who is very bearish. Do you consider yourself a bear or otter?
Bears often think of me as a "cub." Some younger guys, seeing the white whiskers, want me to be a "daddy." I'm possibly in some kind of transition at my age (47). That is, if you go in for labels, which I rebel against. :-)
I picked up the term "pocket bear" from someone a few years ago when I used to be on the Bears' Mailing List, and it seems to work for me. I'd love to be "trim" enough to be an "otter" but the only way I can "pass" is if I suck in my tummy all the time (which is too much work)! So "bear" it is.
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Date: 2005-03-15 06:10 pm (UTC)It was one experience that lasted a year and a half actually. It was someone I actually went to school with but didn't really talk to.
The first time was very interesting. We were making out and both really turned on. At the moment I didn't even have to think about a guy. but when she said "Make love to me" I lost my erection. I was 19 at the time. A little coaxing and things started to work again. Luckily for me, she was experienced. Actually, I found out later that she had sex with my older brother. Ewww. It was a pretty amazing experience at the time. At 17 I was having oral sex with guys, but thought this was the thing I was supposed to do, so it was a good experience. It felt as good as my friends claimed it would. Soon thereafter however, it did take thinking of guys to continue to have sex with her. Also, had I known then what I know now, I never would have done it!
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Date: 2005-03-15 06:24 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-03-15 06:26 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-03-15 06:41 pm (UTC)Fanatsy sex orgy 5000
Date: 2005-03-15 06:42 pm (UTC)Re: Fanatsy sex orgy 5000
Date: 2005-03-15 06:50 pm (UTC)Position is not revelent since I am very versitle and would be open to either way.
Lets see, a couple of them are LJ people.
Porn Stars
Mark Everett
Tom Viccaro
Actor
Matthew Fox from Lost.
But I must also say, there are PLENTY more people out there I fantasize about!
Re: Fanatsy sex orgy 5000
Date: 2005-03-15 07:09 pm (UTC)Re: Fanatsy sex orgy 5000
Date: 2005-03-15 07:15 pm (UTC)I'm curious
Date: 2005-03-15 07:21 pm (UTC)as interesting a life as you've led, and how you seem to be a planner...
Where do you see your life going in, say, 5 years?
Re: I'm curious
Date: 2005-03-15 07:29 pm (UTC)I would like to end up some kind of community planner of some sort. While staying with the career I have as a support person. I volunteer so much of my time to the community through various organizations.
I would love to be as visible as Harry Lit. Planning things like he does and giving it all back to the community.
So in short. Make money in my regular career to be comfortable, which I am right now. And be a planner for the community.
Re: I'm curious
Date: 2005-03-15 07:35 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-03-15 07:25 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-03-15 07:30 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-03-15 07:27 pm (UTC)Hey, I guess one of the guys I was making out with last weekend gave me a cold or flu. I started feeling slightly ill last night and awoke today to feel quite ill, although not dreadfully sick... yet. Anyway, not sure where this will be going, so I may not make it to SF at all this weekend. =o(
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Date: 2005-03-15 07:30 pm (UTC)Umm Everyone's a little bit racist!!
racialism.
Date: 2005-03-15 07:37 pm (UTC)Re: racialism.
Date: 2005-03-15 07:44 pm (UTC)Re: racialism.
Date: 2005-03-15 07:49 pm (UTC)another question
Date: 2005-03-15 07:38 pm (UTC)Are you doing this to satisfy your need to be visible? Or do you care about the folks you do this for/to/with?
Re: another question
Date: 2005-03-15 07:47 pm (UTC)I get a sense of "I did a good thing" when I help at charity events. I'm not rich and I cannot donate lots of money to organizations, so I donate my time! Everyone knows that time is valuable.
My need to be visible? Well, I can fill that by just being me out anywhere!
Re: another question
Date: 2005-03-15 07:50 pm (UTC)What an opening...
Date: 2005-03-15 07:49 pm (UTC)Re: What an opening...
Date: 2005-03-15 07:54 pm (UTC)I masturbate daily. And many many men come to mind. I usually don't focus on just one person. So I can't give you an answer except, that your image has popped in my head from time to time last week.
Re: What an opening...
Date: 2005-03-15 07:59 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-03-15 09:44 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-03-15 09:48 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-03-15 10:10 pm (UTC)You said you would answer all the questions... *evil grin*
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Date: 2005-03-15 10:17 pm (UTC)Bears often think of me as a "cub." Some younger guys, seeing the white whiskers, want me to be a "daddy." I'm possibly in some kind of transition at my age (47). That is, if you go in for labels, which I rebel against. :-)
I picked up the term "pocket bear" from someone a few years ago when I used to be on the Bears' Mailing List, and it seems to work for me. I'd love to be "trim" enough to be an "otter" but the only way I can "pass" is if I suck in my tummy all the time (which is too much work)! So "bear" it is.
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Date: 2005-03-15 10:29 pm (UTC)My question
Date: 2005-03-15 10:09 pm (UTC)Does "intamite" mean that you're into mites? Kinky bastard.
Mighty mite
Date: 2005-03-15 10:18 pm (UTC)Re: My question
Date: 2005-03-15 10:25 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-03-15 10:52 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-03-15 11:04 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-03-16 06:50 am (UTC)