I think everyone has these feelings on ocassion and it is good to purge ourselves and get it out. So I think that expressing it is healthy and I wasn't going to comment. But being the "touchy feely" guy that I am, I am still moved to comment.
There are lots of changes going on in your life now. The split with Sam, Richard the roomate getting out there, Richard the ex moving to Texas...these changes are bound to have an effect on you.
I have also noticed however that you are a man who likes ....well, let's say A LOT of stimulation and positive affirmation....preferably from younger otters. Any other type of guy, well...doesn't count. I have grown to accept this in you as part of who you are. I think that you actually get even more people knocking on your door than you realize so try to be more open to that. I am not saying you need to go to bed with men who don't turn you on....just be open to interacting with them at some level. Your feelings will pass. They probably already have.
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Date: 2007-02-05 08:42 pm (UTC)There are lots of changes going on in your life now. The split with Sam, Richard the roomate getting out there, Richard the ex moving to Texas...these changes are bound to have an effect on you.
I have also noticed however that you are a man who likes ....well, let's say A LOT of stimulation and positive affirmation....preferably from younger otters. Any other type of guy, well...doesn't count. I have grown to accept this in you as part of who you are. I think that you actually get even more people knocking on your door than you realize so try to be more open to that. I am not saying you need to go to bed with men who don't turn you on....just be open to interacting with them at some level. Your feelings will pass. They probably already have.