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So I have learned!
Jan. 23rd, 2007 02:16 pmIt was a bad idea to have people tell me anonymously what they think of me. And I say me, because this seriously backfired on me, and not others. Besides the 3 people who want to have sex with me, I got told what I am doing so wrong.
Moviebears is a fun hobby for me. I really enjoy it. I'm sorry if it annoys you for me to talk about it. I'm also sorry you could not tell me personally how you felt about it either. I think my feelings are more hurt that you could not tell me personally, and now I just have to guess who you are. You are obviously someone I have spent at least a little time to get to know. I also like country dancing, being online, traveling. A lot of the time when I am out people come to me and ask me about Moviebears. I certainly cannot ignore that. But I will do better to limit it. And do much better to not even start conversations about it.
To the person who has done me favors. I cannot honestly remember ever asking anyone to get in a cab and help me out. I like to think that I would put myself out and get a cab and make the round trip for something I needed. If I did that, I am truly sorry. There are very few people I would ask to go out of their way for me. I just can't see myself asking someone I don't know closely to do what you have put in your reply. I sometimes think I do way to much for some people. I do things for people I don't even know, or am close to. I give and expect nothing in return. I don't know how many people I have helped out with computer technical issue and never charged them a cent. Maybe I need to stop being such a nice giving guy! I wish you would contact me me personally so I can talk to you about this.
To you who moved away. I am sorry that I did not get to know you either. I have been wanting to get to know more people better as well. but it just seems to not happen. People are not knocking down my door to get me to go have dinner, brunch, lunch with them. Seems people want to me to get to know them more, but aren't taking the initiative, or even telling me they want to get to know me more.
And to anyone who really wants to get to know ME better. Why don't you tell me that, and why don't you ask me to do something outside of the social scenes? I have on multiple occasions asked people to do this, and get no where. Have you thought that maybe I have no clue that you want to get to know me, or that possibly, I get a feeling that maybe you aren't interested in getting to know me? I have a million ways to be contacted, step up and speak up. You might just get what you ask for. A friend!! And if you don't, at least we tried.
Moviebears is a fun hobby for me. I really enjoy it. I'm sorry if it annoys you for me to talk about it. I'm also sorry you could not tell me personally how you felt about it either. I think my feelings are more hurt that you could not tell me personally, and now I just have to guess who you are. You are obviously someone I have spent at least a little time to get to know. I also like country dancing, being online, traveling. A lot of the time when I am out people come to me and ask me about Moviebears. I certainly cannot ignore that. But I will do better to limit it. And do much better to not even start conversations about it.
To the person who has done me favors. I cannot honestly remember ever asking anyone to get in a cab and help me out. I like to think that I would put myself out and get a cab and make the round trip for something I needed. If I did that, I am truly sorry. There are very few people I would ask to go out of their way for me. I just can't see myself asking someone I don't know closely to do what you have put in your reply. I sometimes think I do way to much for some people. I do things for people I don't even know, or am close to. I give and expect nothing in return. I don't know how many people I have helped out with computer technical issue and never charged them a cent. Maybe I need to stop being such a nice giving guy! I wish you would contact me me personally so I can talk to you about this.
To you who moved away. I am sorry that I did not get to know you either. I have been wanting to get to know more people better as well. but it just seems to not happen. People are not knocking down my door to get me to go have dinner, brunch, lunch with them. Seems people want to me to get to know them more, but aren't taking the initiative, or even telling me they want to get to know me more.
And to anyone who really wants to get to know ME better. Why don't you tell me that, and why don't you ask me to do something outside of the social scenes? I have on multiple occasions asked people to do this, and get no where. Have you thought that maybe I have no clue that you want to get to know me, or that possibly, I get a feeling that maybe you aren't interested in getting to know me? I have a million ways to be contacted, step up and speak up. You might just get what you ask for. A friend!! And if you don't, at least we tried.
