Hey, I'm gay also. BTW- I would really love to have you as my mutual friend at LJ. You know that I do care about you a great deal. I have been concerned about you for several years, ever since I saw your picture in American Bear. I appreciate your honesty. BTW- You are a rare find, you happen to share more than 60% of my interests. I am just not open enough to list those. BTW, I also really like and respect tecwizsfo, he is one helluva great guy. Sometime in the not too distant future, I hope that I will be able to meet both of you in person, maybe next February.